I mentioned in my last blog post, “Things That Changed for Me Moving to the Southwest – MJ’s Blog,” that my expectations moving to the Southwest were a disappointment. Mainly because I was expecting more. Let me explain. When deciding to move to the Southwest, it was supposed to be a temporary thing. I wanted my New York City apartment, along with my home in the countryside, and a place overseas. I have accomplished that, but not in a smooth manner. That’s all due to the Southwest.

The lack resources to make things happen in a timely manner and at a decent cost isn’t available here. I did get rid of my apartment in New York because I no longer want to rent in the city. I want to buy, but I can’t afford the price at the moment. I figured I would move to the Southwest and build my dream home. While here, save for my dream New York City apartment. However, the opportunities available to grow in the Southwest are scarce. Unfortunately, I had to change my plans and timeline. I wasn’t prepared for the lack of general things needed to move forward on my time. I would have not experienced similar circumstances in the North or Southeast.

Here’s how to prepare to move to the Southwest:

Job/Career

If you have a remote job, keep it! The job market in the Southwest is bad. You’ll be lucky to find a job in your field. Even with a college degree, you’ll struggle to find a job. Most businesses are family-oriented, so they will most likely hire from within or hire those within their culture.

Location

If you plan to live outside a downtown area or a location without public transportation, you’ll need a car. I chose to live downtown because I will not buy a vehicle at the moment. I always thought a car was a liability and an unnecessary cost.

Money/Savings

Save money prior to moving to the Southwest. Ways to make money and opportunities are scarce here. You’ll have to work odd jobs or multiple jobs at the same time to survive. Even with a degree. The problem is that there isn’t a variety of jobs available. There’s a specific jobs market and if you don’t qualify – you’re screwed.

Lifestyle

The Southwest is slow. It isn’t New York City. It’s not fast-paced at all. However, I like it. I wanted to live in a place where I could slow down. I’ve lived a fast-paced life my entire life. I’ve always been an active person and on the go since childhood and never got the chance to slow down. If you want a slow-paced, small-town lifestyle, the Southwest is perfect for you.

Fun

I’m not used to not having something to do every day, right at your fingertips. It can get a little boring. I defeated this problem by hosting events at my home or inviting others to hang out.

Things you need to know before you move to the Southwest countryside:

• Some places don’t have public transportation. This includes Uber, Lyft, or cabs.
• Water is scarce here.
• If you want to explore the Southwest and the West Coast, you’ll need a car. A four-wheeled vehicle, specifically.
• Jobs are scarce. You may struggle at bit.
• Resources for big goals aren’t available. You’ll have to create them.
• You’ll have to create fun.