Yes! You heard it right. I’m settling. At thirty-five. I’ve made it. In my thirty-five years, I accomplished a lot. I’ve experienced a lot. I have been through and overcame a lot. I’m happy and settled. There are many things I did prior to settling that helped me reached my goals. We will tackle those specifics during this blog. For now, I want to discuss what I am doing now that I have settled. My life has turned out exactly how I wanted it to at my age, and I am happy and finally settled.

I am doing things I wanted to do early in life or prior to this time in my life. Due to my demanding career and way of life, I couldn’t fully commit to some things. Now, that I am settled – I have the chance.

I will focus on better health.

I will put in extra time into my hobbies.

I’m not getting married.

I’m not having children. I decided early in life that I would not have children after thirty-five.

I will spend more time at home.

I will be selective of my friends and circle.

I will let the past be the past.

I’ll be more cautious with my money. I’ve always been particular on how I spent my money. I don’t like to waste my time or money and those two factors play a major part in my decision making.

I’m involved with my passions.

I don’t rush life.

I don’t force things.

Here are some things I did prior that helped me settle at age thirty-five:

I invested my money early for the things I have now. I decided early in life what I wanted my career to be leading up to my forties. I decided on my stability early.

I visited every place where I used to live and loved and places I may have wanted to live to decide where I wanted to settle.

I cut off people and things that didn’t benefit me and my future.

I told my life story.

I got involved early with my passions.

My journey to settling began early in life. This decision was easy because I knew what I wanted to do at a young age. My focus to create the future I wanted started when I was a teenager. From then, that was my only focus. It help guide me to where I am now. The journey was hard, but worth it. The journey was fun, full of laughter, and good times. Settling was the next step.

Cheers to thirty-five!